Blow jobs are one way to give pleasure to a man. Fellatio is the classy way to describe slobbering on a knob… but we aren’t classy here. So we’ll go ahead and be a bit more blunt and graphic with terminology. And if I don’t educate you at all then hopefully my kinky description will just turn you on.

A blow job can be a part of foreplay, or it may even be a replacement for intercourse for a variety of reasons. Giving a blow job is about GIVING pleasure, not receiving it… but it can be extremely pleasurable for YOU to see how much you have turn your man on!

As with all sex acts, communication are always key to success. Whether you do it before or after just be sure to do it. Talking with a dick in your mouth is pretty much impossible, so save the communication for another time.

The basic procedure for a good blow job is to start off slow, like a tease. Anticipation is half the fun. Kissing and licking a cock should be savored, and if you care at all about what you are doing then you’ll love the excitement it brings. Gentle licking along the underside of the cock is sure to get him rock hard.

Men are visual creatures; nothing may excite him more than making eye contact with him during a blow job. Let him WATCH you do it. Put on a show while you do it. Pretend you are in a porn movie. He’ll absolutely love seeing his tally whacker rubbed on your pouty mouth, against your cheek, and seeing it dip deep in your mouth. Your position for the visual part obviously needs to be simplistic… but you can always change the situation once you’ve got his head leaning back and his eyes closed. You want his eyes closed… more on that later.

Beware of teeth! Never bite unless you’ve been asked to! The cock is a sensitive magic wand and you don’t want to ruin the mood. Gentle light grazing of the teeth is welcomed – it reminds him of where his rod is at… in your hot wet mouth!

Move his Wang into your mouth with a fucking motion – in and out. Start off with gentle sucking. Don’t suck like it’s a straw please. Hollow out your cheeks a little but don’t get crazy. Sucking a cock is not all about actually sucking. It’s about technique, change, design, and so on. Vary the speed, slow then fast, then slow again. Drag it out sweetheart – you are giving pleasure after all.

Mix it up a little. Don’t let your jaw go sore, toss in a little “toss off” too. Use your hands to alternate some stroking and sucking. And let’s not forget that nut sack people! It too needs groped and fondled. Some guy may enjoy some anal play too, others may not. You can add other things into the mix too… such as some sex toys or flavored lubricants. Get creative.

Ok his eyes are closed and he is enjoying everything that you’ve been doing to him! Now is time for you to pay visual attention to those plums. Keep your eyes focused on his balls because they will tell you the story of his orgasm. The close he gets to orgasm the tighter his balls are going to get.

Pay attention to the sensations YOU are feeling too. That dick will swell up more in your mouth. The veins will get more pronounced and the skin gets tighter. You may even feel it twitch or throb a little too as he becomes engorged. Duh… common sense but it means the explosion is near.

Deep throating is another technique used during a blow job. It’s exactly what the name imply – you take his skin flute as deep into the back of your throat as humanly possible. Positioning is important since you need to have your throat at the same angle as the cock to even begin. You also need to mentally suppress your gag reflex. Thrusting during this technique is not encouraged, it can cause some rather yucky circumstanced or discomfort. Pacing should actually be slow but steady.

The receiver of the blow job will be a happy camper for you to swallow his cum. You may have other feelings about it. You should only do it if you want to, and know you will enjoy it. If you don’t want to swallow – you can still let him cum in your mouth and spit. Try not to run to the bathroom and spit in the sink or spit into a tissue as if you are disgusted. It can be a “put off” to your partner. Spit it in a sexy playful way… perhaps into your hand and then rub it on your body etc. Or let it drip off your face for that nasty visual effect that will get him hard again! Even if you don’t care for the taste of cum, you should never make it obvious to your partner.

Obviously I’ll mention safe sex too. All sex including blow jobs should be done with a condom unless you are with a partner that you know is “clean” from disease. You can find a variety of flavored condoms specifically designed for oral sex… but stay away from the general lubricated ones since they taste rather icky. You can also use a regular un-lubricated condom and wash it with some soap and water to take away the rubbery taste.

And how does it all end? Well it’s not with the orgasmic explosion. Now way Jose you should be still kissing and licking at the drippy dick for a short spell. It’s all about loving what you do after all. But be careful – that cock may be super sensitive now. You’ll know you gave a good blow job when your man is smiling the rest of the day.

There are many ways to enjoy the anus in a sexual manner, and these acts have taken place for centuries throughout history. Both men and women enjoy anal play, and men who like it are not all homosexuals. The fact is that not all gay men enjoy anal sex, so drop the homophobia! Some people truly enjoy the sensation of a finger inserted into their ass and even like it gently rotated. Other horny people may prefer to insert a dildo, vibrator, or a buttplug. Anal penetration has become a fairly modern sexual routine for many couples. This article contains the dirty scoop to enjoying anal intercourse or anal play….. in an honest, practical, and common sense way.

Many people (often women) believe that anal intercourse hurts and that it is always going to be a pain in the ass… literally. This is simply not true. It’s all about approach and being prepared mentally as well as physically. If a person experiences pain during anal sex… most likely something is being done incorrectly. Anal sex is something that a couple should ease into if it’s new to them… with a slow progressive process. It will take time, effort, and lots of preparation.

Do your research! You have the whole internet at your finger tips and there are hundreds of available websites with instructions. While my little article may give you some advice, don’t solely use it as your only guide. Read, read, read, and read some more. Read as much as you can before you venture into the uncharted territory of Butt Town. Knowledge is power!

Second, you must find out if your partner is open to the experience. Now that’s you’ve studied, be open honest and communicative about what you learned. Discuss your desire and hear your partner’s responses. If your partner is against it for any reason, do not force it upon them because it will only turn out to be a lousy experience for you both. Make the conversation naughty if you’d like! Discuss it in bed rather than at Sunday dinner. Tell your partner how excited you are during a sexual encounter, tell them how badly you want to have anal sex with them, tell them how intimate it is. Keyword here is seduction. Say it, commit to it, and perform it to the highest degree that you can. Some of my ideas to get the crack opening are: to start off with a sensual body massage touching your partner everywhere. Follow it with a full body tongue bath … including all the spots that you want your cock to experience. No rushing! If you want your partner’s butt then show them how bad you want it!

Once your partner is hot and bothered — make them feel a little “kinky” or “dirty” without making them feel cheap. If your partner protests… try more foreplay and seduction without badgering. Try using your fingers very lightly on their asshole … tease it without jamming it. Make it sexy, sensual, and seductive. Seduction is a key element remember? Trace your finger around the rim with some lube for a tingly sensation. You may advance on to finger insertion, analingus, and maybe even incorporate a sex toy. The bottom line is to keep it sexy, that’s the only way those tight sphincter muscles will loosen up!

Keep it clean baby. A bath or shower before is important. It’s a good idea to have a bowel movement at least an hour before anal sex, to make sure you don’t run into anything you don’t want to. An enema is nice too - and very thorough - but is not necessary for a clean anal sex. The anal action itself needs to be kept “clean” as well. Once your cock or sex toy has been inside the rectum, don’t put it inside anywhere else until you have washed thoroughly. Being careless can cause some nasty infections that you do not want to find out about. The entire anal area contains a variety of bacteria that belong, and should only remain in the anus. You don’t want to contaminate other areas of your body by inserting ANYTHING that has been in the anus into ANY other orifice of the body. Paranoid clean freaks can use a condom for anal sex… it does keep any mess to a minimum.

Lube up that hole! The anus is not naturally lubricated like the vagina is for example. Yes, you need to use lots of store bought lubricant – and it needs to be the right type of lubricant also. In a monogamous relationship that doesn’t require a condom… an oil based lube works excellent. It’s long lasting, slippery, and does the trick! Oil based lubes do damage to condoms so when using a “raincoat” stick to water based lubes only. They work just well, however you will find that additional applications may be needed frequently since they tend to dry up. Condoms are widely known to prevent STD’s so use common sense for your own safety. When you insert something into the anus some minor damage occurs to the delicate tissues along the anal walls. The lining of the rectum is very thin, and can rip if there is too much stress put on it. So the more lube you use – the better, because less damage will occur. The minor damage isn’t harmful mind you; the same is true when you brush your teeth. Delicate tissues in your mouth are also damaged. The point being that more lube equals more fun and safety!

You can start insertion with your lubed finger, which will help you to feel the two closely spaced anal muscles. Keep your partner in pleasure as you proceed. The anal outer ring is a controlled muscle that can be contracted or relaxed at will. The inner muscle is not controlled, it is an involuntary muscle that will react and tighten when it is exposed to tension. Now remember the anus is basically used for bodily waste, and what that means is that there is some voluntary control and some reflex reactions to stimulation. You can control that inner tight sphincter muscle with your finger while your partner relaxes mentally. Add more lube. Slide your finger in deeper and deeper… inch by inch. Curve and bend your finger naturally as it follows through the deep tunnel. You can discover the unique shape of the rectum by feeling around slightly with your finger. It’s not a straight shot, the deep canal tilts toward the front of the body. Try moving and twisting your finger until you have a clear mental picture of the inner design. Each person’s body is unique.

Stop if your partner asks you to stop for goodness sakes. Don’t be an asshole! Tension, pressure, and force can cause some pain physically and even mentally. Go back to the beginning and work your way back into it. And finally if you partner does ask you to stop completely, it’s time to listen before it becomes a “bad” experience. There will be other times to try, but not if you wear out your welcome to Butt Town! Besides, the simple truth is that if your partner doesn’t enjoy it…. then neither will you ultimately. Let’s keep going!

Step it up a notch! Now that you’ve got your finger deeply imbedded in Butt Town… try two, or maybe grab for a small toy. Use some thrusts to keep the muscles open. Allow your partner to get used to the stimulation and the sensations that they are experiencing! And now it will be time to go for it with Mr. Penis. Ask your partner if they are ready! Proceed with the prick!

Be slow gosh darn it. Take your time this isn’t a race! Initial penetration is the most difficult part. Keep your partner relaxed because it makes insertion easier. When experimenting with anal sex for the first few times, go deliberately very slow. There is no reason to rush, and if you take your time you can make it a sensual experience.

And there you have it! Lust itself will not make anal sex enjoyable. Men and women will experience it a bit differently. Practice, knowledge, seduction, and caution do make it the best experience it can be. The pleasure that cums from anal sex is very different and it’s a whole new sensation for those kinky enough to try it. Being totally absorbed in the experience can bring on intense stimulation and orgasm. One thing is for certain…anal sex can bring you to a whole new intimate level with your partner and it’s down right fun!